Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Raise your hand if these verses were read at your wedding…
Yes, my hand went up.
We often use this as a description of love between a husband and wife — but that is not its intent. This kind of love — agape in Greek — more broadly applies to an “unconditional love.” It’s not just romantic, it’s not just being a sibling or a child, it’s not just being nice to others. It’s about caring so deeply that it never changes and it consumes you. It’s your duty and calling.
The standard for agape love is how we are loved by God. Unconditionally. It never changes. Sacrificial to the extreme. That’s a standard that I can only dream to exhibit toward my wife… Let alone more generally.
We toss around “love” quite plainly. I “love” cinnamon scones. Really? Certainly not “love” in this way!
Challenge yourself to think about this standard for love. Of course we fall short… But how do we get closer?
Be God’s — every day.