For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.
1 Timothy 6:7
I am fully aware that this verse is speaking of material possessions, based on the verses surrounding. And given that, it’s broader them is that we should not focus on things that have no lasting meaning. When we leave this world, it’s just us and our faith. We leave everything else behind.
I’d like to focus on what we leave behind.
Yesterday I attended the memorial for my colleague Dave. The service occurred in the newly built sacred hall of a Jewish temple in the northern suburbs. There were probably a thousand people there, packed to the point that I was seated in practically the front row on a side, no more than 50 feet from Dave’s parents, wife, and three children. Of course, I and everyone else there was saddened for the family he left behind.
Then I started to see that while Dave would no longer be with them, he had left his imprint and would always be with them. As his 18 year old son Benji sat hand in hand with Dave’s now widow, I could see character built through years of fathering. When Benji stood and eulogized his father, two thousand wet eyes knew that Dave had built a family of character. I learned after the service that the day after he passed, his son Adam still participated in his confirmation, saying that his dad taught him how important it was to become a member of the faith community. His daughter Jessie, shortly after Adam’s confirmation, still walked across the stage at her 8th grade graduation, because she knew her dad valued education and this was a sign of that.
I also learned that Dave was an organ donor, and his legacy will live on in someone else whom he never met, but will endlessly appreciate his gift.
I can only hope that I will leave a legacy like Dave. Someday as a father, I would hope that I could instill such character in my family.
While on earth, we can store up treasures and leave them behind. Or we can focus on the love around us, and leave a legacy among our family and community that change the world forever. To that end, each day should be about building the memory you hope to leave, showing God’s love to one another.
Be God’s — every day.