For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.
Ephesians 2:10
Okay, this isn’t a random verse today. I have a story to tell.
Yesterday I was called to a meeting with the head of HR for Aon Hewitt’s global consulting business. Apparently, I am on a list of high potential people who they intend to groom for leadership roles and want to make sure they retain. They wanted to know how I felt about our merger, and what my career aspirations were.
At some point, he asked me what was important to me. Knowing that this could be a career limiting statement, I decided it was the right time to be honest about where I see my life heading:
“My career is third on my priority list, so what is important to me at work is to make sure I can stay centered on priorities 1 and 2. I want to become the man I was created to be, and I want to be the best husband and father (eventually) that I can be. My career is a means to those ends.”
He was a bit surprised, I’d say. He even replied “Needless to say we don’t get the response too often in these discussions.”
“Maybe that’s a problem. If our future leaders are just focused on work, where does that lead us? No one puts ‘He was a really good consultant’ on their headstone. I’m all for being a good consultant, but I think we all need to keep that in perspective.”
I feel a bit liberated today. Who knows where those comments will go. I suppose nothing could happen. I suppose I could get removed from the hi-po list — which is probably okay if my values are inconsistent with that career. Or, I suppose, the powers that be will respect those values and recognize that being a Christian doesn’t disqualify me as a leader. Time will tell. But having been honest, I am very at peace with being real about who I am and what I care about.
I don’t share this to be proud. I share this because I know I’m not the only one who struggles to balance career and family. I know I’m not the only one who knows that we can all get caught up in getting ahead. Know that I’m there with you. Pray for me as this pans out. I’ve taken a stand for what I think God made me to be. I know God smiles upon us as we stand for him.
And tomorrow we’ll get back to NOT being about me… 
Be God’s — every day.